If you feel like you are navigating the complex and often isolating world of gender distress without a map, this group was created for you. Whether you are walking on eggshells with a volatile teenager, trying to slow down a medicalization plan for a young adult, or simply feeling outmatched by the "affirmation-only" voices in your child's life, you do not have to do this alone. This membership is for parents who refuse to choose between maintaining a loving connection with their child and abandoning their own parental intuition and common sense. Inside, you will move beyond the noise of the culture wars and get into the practical, psychological strategies that actually work. Through my monthly Essential Topics videos, you’ll get concrete scripts and actionable frameworks—like how to "buy time" without becoming the enemy, or how to break out of repetitive arguments. And in our Live Q&As, you’ll find a sane, nuanced space to troubleshoot your specific family dynamics, learning not just from me, but from a community of veteran parents who are successfully playing the long game for their children's health and happiness.

This is the kind of information available on my Parent Membership Site. There you’ll find full-length videos, articles, book recommendations, and other helpful resources for parents of gender-questioning teens and young adults. There are two membership tiers:

Tier 2 – Live Monthly Q&As with Sasha

The highest membership tier gives you access to everything at the lower tier and an additional 90-minute monthly live Q&A video call with me and other parents – and you can attend anonymously if you prefer. This is an opportunity to engage with me more directly, ask specific questions, and hear relevant queries from other parents (if you have a question, likely many other parents do too).

Tier 1 – "Essential Topics" Videos

In the first membership tier, you’ll find monthly videos related to the most common and essential questions I get from parents. These include a broad range of issues. Here are just a few examples:

• Navigating your teen’s defensiveness during gender conversations
• Feeling more confident responding to requests and demands
• Encountering disorienting jargon and ideological material in your child’s worldview
• Managing your child’s internet and social media dependency
• How to deal with your child’s school